Why Did Johnny Kill? School Violence Explained The Dynamics of Rejection, Isolation, Bullying, Shame, Anger and Acting Out in Rage in Children A Summary of the Interim Secret Service Report on School Violence Table of Contents © Lynne Namka, Ed. D. This Report includes a collection of works by Lynne Namka, Ed. D., a Licensed Psychologist in private practice, which spans several years and has been updated in light of the growing problems associated with school violence. Table of Contents A Forward ..................................................................................... 1 We Are All Part of the Problem. We Are All Part of the Solution..... 4 So What Do We Do About School Violence? ................................. 6 Life's Injustices Set The Stage for Perception of Threat and Aggressive Behavior ................................................... 10 Resources: Organizations, Centers, Books and Lists of Other School Safety Web Sites ........................................ 14 Who Is In And Who Is Out -- How Children View Their Peers ........ 16 Children Who Are Traumatized by Bullying ................................... 18 Anger and Social Skill Deficits ....................................................... 20 Shame is the Shaper of Symptoms -- The Disowned Part of the Self ....................................................... 22 "You Owe Me!" -- Children of Entitlement ...................................... 26 Fuzzy Thinking: Reality Distortion and Common Errors in Thinking ........................................................... 30 Repressors -- Going Through Life With an Emotional Flat Line Except for Anger ............................................. 32 ProjectionFirst Cast the Mote Out of Thine Own Eye! .................... 33 The "Right Woman or Man Theory" -- The "I Need To Be Right" Way of Thinking .................................... 35 Prevention -- Children Do Not Have To Remain a Victim of Their Anger ..................................................................... 38 Social Skills for Dealing with Anger ............................................... 42 How a Child Changes! Seven Steps to Freedom ............................ 44 An Open Letter to Parents of Children Who Have a Severe Anger Problem ............................................................................... 45 Recommended Books ..................................................................... 47 About Dr. Namka ............................................................................ 48 Download all 50 pages in PDF format   Permission is provided for the use of the materials in this Report, provided appropriate acknowledgment and Dr. Namka's web site, http://AngriesOut.com, is given.